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“Flip the Script” to Remember Who You Are

Banish doubt and conquer fear

When we strive to achieve our Goals, we often forget ourselves.

Why?

Because our Inner Critic can give us the wrong impression: that other people “have what it takes.”

When we see someone who’s achieved massive success, a part of us thinks, “That’s just how winners are.”

We forget that people who are successful at what they do were not born with the same personality, determination, or grit that they now have.

They’re human, just like us.

And we are not beings with immutable traits.

From the moment we’re born, we slowly mirror, practice, learn, and adopt the skills that we have now.

Let’s not forget that that process never stops.

Let’s not hold the false belief that others have what it takes while we do not.

We can become who we truly wish to be.

We can identify, practice, and learn the skills that we need.

And one day, we will have the skillset, temperament, and resilience to achieve the success that we want.

So the next time your Inner Critic begins to compare “you” to “them”…

 

Flip the Script:

from “I can’t” to “Of course, I CAN.”

Remind yourself:

  • “Skills are not traits.”

  • “Skills can be learned.”

  • “Other people have learned these skills.”

  • “I can learn them, too.”

 

Shift your mindset.

Which skills are you opening to learning, today?

The Learner in me honors & respects the Learner in each of you,

Marisa

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Marisa

Attorney, Artist, and Author of THE OBSIDIAN CHRONICLES. Writer who believes in the power of words. Life-long learner who’s passionate about the science and art of self-improvement

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